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03-17-2012, 07:46 AM
I really had to struggle to decide which forum to post this one in.

Have any of you heard of a chastity catheter ?

Brand new to me ! But I am going to cut and paste directly from the website that advocates them and let you decide what you think about it.

Warning. NSFW.
In fact it seemed at first extremely bizarre but then..... or.. and then... well... ummm ?

Umm. yes.
Ok.. here it is and quoting directly from the site.

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OK !
Whew !

My girlfriend found this through a forum she frequents and saved the page for me.
I don't quite know how to digest this.

It is so, so, so wrong.. and yet so, so, so titillating.. in a very weird way.:roll:

It both frightens and attracts me. It seems dangerous and yet the website assures it is completely safe.
Well, (safe for fifteen days).

How fucking humiliating is That ?

But I seriously have to know what the rest of you think.

03-17-2012, 08:28 AM
Inserting catheters is something you should not do unless you are trained to do it and take all the necessary precautions to prevent infection. You can do damage if you don't do it properly.

It can also be painful. I speak from experience. When I was in the hospital with my knee operation about 5 hours post-op, I needed to urinate and could not. So they decided to insert a catheter. Three technicians and 4 catheters (two different types) later they still did not have it in. One of the techs was even from the urology ward.

Luckily Mrs. Mule (the nurse) was in the room with us as they discussed sending me back down to the OR to have the urologist put a catheter back in. She said, "stand him up." They looked at her and she repeated, "Stand him up." They looked at me and I nodded. So they put a walker next to the bed and I pulled myself up on it and dragged myself to the bathroom. followed by two techs who both were at the ready to keep me from falling (luckily I was stable) and to drag along the IV and whatever else I was hooked up to. I was able to urinate, but it burned a lot from all the irritation. The burning went away in about a day.

The point is that they swabbed my penis down with antiseptic on each attempt, even though it was still wet from the last attempt.

The other takeaway from this is that in some older men (like me) the bladder flops over when they are laying down and crimps the tube. This isn't necessarily a bad thing - it means that they can pull an "all nighter" (sleep through the night without going to the bathroom). The bladder settles in when they stand up. So the position of the man's body when the catheter is inserted is important. Leave it to a 60-year old nurse to figure that one out.

This is an anatomical lesson I would have rather learned from a book than through trial and error with my own body.

Now there are people who, for medical reasons, do insert their own catheters. These people are women. I do not know if self-catheterization is recommended for men. These women have been trained to do it. So if you want to engage in this kind of play get the proper training.

03-17-2012, 10:43 AM
I have real difficulties getting my head around this. I do get excited by really weird things but this sort of physical interference of a member that could cause severely debilitating problems if it went wrong - is it really worth it?

03-17-2012, 05:40 PM
Scary but being totally at the whim of the Mistress/my wife is a thrilling thought. I think it would be fun to employ this technique every now and then as a reminder of the Domme's power over the sub. I would not want this done on a regular basis.

04-02-2012, 11:37 PM
If you google catheters and do the Wikipedia thing it does seem that there are dangers. The website I visited downplayed them but clearly it is not entirely without issues. On the other hand it is done in hospitals all the time as a part of routine surgeries.

I think I trust Mrs. Mule on this one.

04-03-2012, 08:28 AM
My Mistress has spoken to me about catheters. All part of a process of mentally preparing me or just simply raising the fear stakes?
First of all the catheters she uses are surgical quality. They are all sterilised again to surgical level immediately before and after use. Eliminating the risk of infection is paramount to her. That said even in a hospital infections do sometimes occur as a result of catheter insertion. Fortunately not an overly common occurrence.
She did go on to tell various horror stories where submissives have been debilitated for weeks and in one case for several months when an infection took hold.
Would I consider it? I might, but would not really know until the moment came. I say this knowing how difficult I found the prospect of needles and yet now they are something I love, they take you so fast into sub space your feet don't touch.
Would I consider a catheter by somebody who was not technically skilled and had no comprehension of the risks not in a million years.